Andrew Haigh: The Unvarnished Truths of Love and Loss

If there’s a modern filmmaker who makes my heart swell and ache in equal measure, it’s Andrew Haigh. This British maestro has crafted a body of work that dives into the depths of LGBTQ+ experiences with a raw, unflinching honesty that is as rare as it is refreshing. His films and TV shows are not merely stories; they are lived-in, breathed-in worlds that lay bare the human condition in all its messy, glorious complexity

In “Weekend,” Haigh invites us into the intimate bubble of Russell and Glen, played by Tom Cullen and Chris New. Over the span of a weekend, these two men share moments of vulnerability that feel startlingly genuine. Made on a shoestring budget of $120,000, this film punches well above its financial weight, grossing around $1.1 million worldwide and scooping up awards like the Audience Award at SXSW.

Haigh’s desire for authenticity shines through in every frame. “I wanted it to feel real, like a genuine conversation, not something overly polished,” he said. And he succeeded. The film sits pretty with a 95% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes and a score of 81 on Metacritic. A.O. Scott of The New York Times lauded it as “a bracing, present-tense exploration of sex and intimacy,” while Peter Bradshaw of The Guardian called it “a sincere, delicate, intense, and powerful love story.”

Then came “Looking,” Haigh’s HBO series that zeroes in on the lives of three gay friends in San Francisco. Jonathan Groff, Frankie J. Alvarez, and Murray Bartlett bring to life the everyday trials and triumphs of Patrick, Agustín, and Dom. The series ran for two seasons, plus a finale special, offering viewers 18 episodes of unvarnished, unassuming depiction of gay life.

Haigh’s goal was clear: “We wanted to show gay men as they are, not as a stereotype or a caricature, but as real, complex individuals.” And the critics agreed. The show holds an 89% approval rating for Season 1 and a whopping 93% for Season 2 on Rotten Tomatoes. Brian Lowry of Variety praised it as “a refreshingly low-key, unassuming depiction of gay life.” At the same time, Spencer Kornhaber of The Atlantic called it “one of the most honest and relatable portrayals of modern gay life on television.”

Fast forward to 2023, and Haigh gifts us “All of Us Strangers,” a film that feels like it’s dipped in the essence of nostalgia and loss. Starring the impeccable Andrew Scott and the ever-rising Paul Mescal, the story follows Adam, a lonely gay writer who encounters his deceased parents as young adults while falling for his neighbor, Harry.

Haigh’s touch is evident in the personal nature of this tale. “A generation of queer people are grieving for the childhood they never had,” he reflected. The film’s reception has been nothing short of stellar, with a 96% approval rating on Rotten Tomatoes and a score of 90 on Metacritic. The Guardian hailed it as “a devastating film… hoovering up awards and leaving audiences in pieces,” and Variety called it “a haunting and achingly tender exploration of love, loss, and the ghosts that shape us.”

Haigh’s body of work stands as a testament to his unparalleled talent for capturing the quiet, tender moments that define relationships. IndieWire rightly points out his knack for “capturing the quiet, tender moments that define relationships.” The Advocate praises his films and shows for providing “a much-needed representation of gay life, characterized by honesty and intimacy,” while Out Magazine dubs his works “a beacon of authenticity in LGBTQ+ cinema.”

Haigh’s magic lies in his ability to make us feel seen, understood, and less alone. His stories are not just about gay life; they are about life itself, with all its love, loss, and lingering ghosts. He strips away the veneer of cinematic gloss to reveal something far more beautiful and true: the unvarnished human heart.

The Unspoken Queer Icons of Cinema

So what exactly makes a movie fabulously queer without explicitly waving the rainbow flag? Darling, just mix in a handful of top-tier gay icons — think Bette Midler, Joan Crawford, and Faye Dunaway (doing her best Joan Crawford impression, of course). Ensure they’re trading gloriously bitchy lines while tearing each other to shreds, and add a heavy dose of unashamedly camp aesthetic. Voilà! You’ve whipped up something irresistibly queer, whether by accident or design.

Some films have sashayed their way into the queer canon purely through their gloriously terrible or debatable quality. Take “Showgirls,” “Mommie Dearest,” “Glitter,” and that delightfully dreadful remake of “The Stepford Wives.” These are cinematic disasters that somehow transcend into camp classics. Meanwhile, others like Robert Zemeckis’ Oscar-winning “Death Becomes Her” have managed to push the envelope, standing the test of time and appealing to the ever-evolving tastes of queer audiences. Watching Meryl Streep and Goldie Hawn in a diva showdown, with in-camera and CGI effects making the impossible possible — like Goldie’s gaping stomach wound — is nothing short of iconic.

Looking back, Hollywood’s legendary leading ladies set the precedent for films now celebrated in gay culture, even without overtly gay characters. Bette Davis in “All About Eve” gave us the immortal, “Fasten your seatbelts, it’s going to be a bumpy night,” while Elizabeth Taylor took Bette’s “What a dump” and elevated it in “Who’s Afraid of Virginia Woolf?” with a chicken wing in hand. And in the age of reading and shade, what’s queerer than a biting comeback? Whoopi Goldberg in “Sister Act” immortalized, “It’s better than sex,” a line so deeply embedded in our cultural lexicon we often forget its origin.

Ed Bianchi’s 1981 “The Fan” graced us with Lauren Bacall as an aging starlet, battling to keep her legacy intact while being stalked by a deranged gay fan — a camp classic, if ever there was one. Films like “9 to 5” and “Steel Magnolias” continue to enchant because their casts are a veritable who’s who of gay icons, delivering lines that make us laugh and cry in the same breath. Even documentaries like the Maysles’ monumental “Grey Gardens” resonate with the queer community, thanks to Little Edie’s unforgettable musings on the best costume for the day.

And let’s not overlook the enduring charm of films where men are humiliated and debased, leaving our fabulous female leads holding all the cards. From Gloria Swanson’s glamorously sinister Norma Desmond in “Sunset Boulevard” to the witchy wonders of “Hocus Pocus” with Bette Midler, Kathy Najimy, and Sarah Jessica Parker casting a spell on us all, these films keep us rooting for the fierce female leads. Adding to this pantheon are the gothic delights of “The Addams Family” with Anjelica Huston’s Morticia Addams, and the fashionista fever dream that is “The Devil Wears Prada” with Meryl Streep’s icy Miranda Priestly.

Let’s throw in a few more gems. “The Birdcage” is an absolute riot, with Robin Williams and Nathan Lane serving up drag realness and familial chaos. “Priscilla, Queen of the Desert” takes us on a glittering road trip across the Australian Outback, complete with ABBA hits and feather boas. And then there’s “Hedwig and the Angry Inch,” a raw and raucous musical journey that’s as touching as it is outrageous.

These films, darlings, are forever etched into the queer cinematic tapestry, celebrated for their audacious style, sharp wit, and the women who deliver it all with a knowing wink. They remind us that camp isn’t just a sensibility; it’s a way of life.

Breaking Barriers: Isaac Humphries’ Courageous Journey

Isaac Humphries, Melbourne United’s towering presence, boldly stepped last year by announcing his sexuality to the world. With this revelation, he aimed to inspire more professional athletes to embrace their true selves.

Humphries, now 26, shared his deeply personal journey on the latest episode of the “Mental As Anyone” podcast. His path to self-acceptance was anything but straightforward. At one point, he even sought the help of a hypnotherapist in a desperate attempt to change his sexual orientation.

“I definitely had the self-homophobia, the shame, and the hatred that many closeted gay people experience,” Humphries confided. “You spiral into this dark place. While it might not seem like a big deal nowadays, the lingering impact on my life was profound, pushing me into a very dark space.”

In a bid to escape his reality, Humphries turned to hypnotherapy. “I told the hypnotherapist, ‘Can you hypnotise me out of thinking this way about men and rewire my thoughts to focus on women, so I don’t have to deal with it?'” he recalled. Despite his efforts, the therapy was futile. “I wanted a wife, kids, a house, a family,” he explained, “so we tried to hypnotise me into thinking only about that and nothing else. But it obviously didn’t work.”

His public coming out made him the first openly gay player in NBL history and only the second in any top-tier global basketball league. Humphries joined Josh Cavallo of A-League Men as one of the few active athletes in Australia’s top sports leagues to come out as gay.

“I believe it’s time to set an example for the next generation,” Humphries declared last year. “I want to show that you can be a professional athlete, you can be anything you want, and still be true to yourself.”

Humphries revealed his struggles to his teammates, sharing that he had hidden his sexuality from loved ones and even himself, which led him to contemplate suicide at one point. “This truth about myself was something I wanted to deny for a long time, but now I feel comfortable telling you all: I am gay,” he announced. “I’ve been through extremely dark times, but I’ve grown so much and am now happy with who I am.”

He emphasized the responsibility of athletes to set positive examples. “There are so many people out there struggling every day, not knowing how to get up or exist. I know how that feels, and I want to represent those people.”

Humphries signed with Melbourne United last July and, with the full support of the club, stepped into his role not just as a player but as a beacon of hope for many. “We as athletes have a responsibility to set examples for people,” he said in a heartfelt video message to his teammates. “My goal is to show that you can be whatever you want, no matter who you are or what you do.”

His announcement came just before a significant game against his former club, Adelaide 36ers, marking a pivotal moment in his career. United CEO Nick Truelson and head coach Dean Vickerman praised Humphries for his bravery. “Today is an incredible step in Isaac’s journey, and we as a club are wholeheartedly supportive of him,” Truelson stated. “This is a momentous occasion not just for him personally but for male sport on a global scale.”

The sports world, including stars, fans, teams, and even the NBA itself, lauded Humphries for his courageous step.

Humphries joined Melbourne United in July this year. 
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Olympian Tom Bosworth: The Frustrations of LGBTQ+ Extremes in Sports

Tom Bosworth, the openly gay Olympian, has spent most of his career navigating the complexities of being an LGBTQ+ athlete. Competing in the race walk at both the Rio 2016 and Tokyo 2020 Olympics, and now eyeing the Paris Games, Bosworth has witnessed the growing presence of openly gay athletes. This year, almost 200 LGBTQ+ athletes are competing, a stark increase from the mere 53 in Rio. Yet, of these athletes, only 20 are men who openly identify as gay or bisexual.

Bosworth is candid about his frustrations with the LGBTQ+ community’s expectations, which he feels have become increasingly extreme and unhelpful for sportspeople. “I don’t think the LGBTQ+ community helps itself,” he admits. “The media portrayal of the community is becoming more and more extreme, pushing people into stereotypes that don’t necessarily align with their identities. This doesn’t help LGBTQ+ sportspeople at all.”

Having once been involved in LGBTQ+ events and media, Bosworth now feels alienated by the very community that is supposed to be accepting. “It’s ironic,” he says, “this community is meant to be welcoming, yet if you don’t fit a specific mould, you’re not seen as representative. It’s really frustrating.” He points out that many sportspeople are now more comfortable being themselves, showing that LGBTQ+ individuals can achieve the highest levels in their fields without conforming to a certain type.

Reflecting on his experiences, Bosworth notes an interesting dynamic: “There are people deeply involved in LGBTQ+ community activities who perhaps haven’t achieved as much in their sports careers, while those who don’t fit the stereotypical LGBTQ+ image often seem to be sidelined. This extreme approach is particularly challenging for sportspeople.”

Despite his criticisms, Bosworth remains a staunch advocate for being openly gay in sports. He believes that the initial fear of coming out is often exacerbated by the potential reaction from within the LGBTQ+ community itself. “I love seeing more sportspeople come out,” he says. “It encourages others to live openly. An open and happy athlete is more likely to be successful. It’s beneficial for the individual and the sport.”

Bosworth has been a champion for change not just on the track but off it as well. Thirteen years after his first British championship title, he’s now promoting physical activity through the Step in Stratford campaign with YOTELPAD Stratford. Based around the 2012 Olympic site, this initiative includes a walking route to help guests achieve their daily steps while exploring the Olympic heritage. “Walking is an easy entry into sport,” Bosworth explains. “People might not want to run or buy expensive gear for cycling or triathlons, but walking every day can make a big impact.”

He emphasizes that his work with YOTEL, which includes their Non-Stop Pride initiative, represents active inclusivity rather than tokenism. “I never wanted to be known just as a gay track and field athlete,” he says. “I want to be recognized for my achievements on the track and for inspiring people to be more active. It’s about making a real difference.”

In the end, Bosworth’s message is clear: the LGBTQ+ community must strive for genuine inclusivity and move beyond stereotypes. Only then can it truly support its members, especially those in sports, to thrive without feeling the pressure to fit into predefined boxes.

Jimbo, Clowning Around in the World of Drag

Jimbo the Drag Queen, known for their audacious performances and strikingly unique persona, has carved an indelible mark in the world of drag and beyond. Emerging into the limelight through their participation in Canada’s Drag Race Season 1, Jimbo quickly became a fan favorite. Despite being perceived as “robbed” by many fans, this setback only fueled their artistic fervor, propelling them into an illustrious career that blends humor, horror, and heart in equal measure.

Following their stint on Canada’s Drag Race, Jimbo didn’t rest on their laurels. They returned to the competitive stage on RuPaul’s Drag Race: UK vs the World, once again showcasing their distinctive blend of comedy and creativity. Despite another controversial exit, Jimbo’s reputation as a force to be reckoned with only grew. Their perseverance and unique vision finally paid off on RuPaul’s Drag Race All Stars where they clinched the crown, solidifying their status as one of the most memorable queens in Drag Race herstory.

Post-Drag Race, Jimbo has continued to captivate audiences worldwide. Their live shows, such as the recent tour that included a mesmerizing performance at The Wiltern in Los Angeles, have been a testament to their growth as an artist. Jimbo’s performances are a riotous blend of clowning and drag, a combination that feels as natural as it is groundbreaking. Britt Small, Jimbo’s director and longtime collaborator, remarks on their seamless integration of clowning into drag, noting that it expands the art form and creates a unique connection with the audience.

Jimbo’s shows are a collaborative effort, involving many artists from various stages of their life. From the set design to the original music composed with Andrew Fields, every aspect of the performance is meticulously crafted. Fields, who plays Jimbo’s sidekick Jeepers the Clown, highlights the organic chemistry and shared history that make their collaborations so special.

In their performances, Jimbo often includes elements of surprise and audience interaction, a nod to their clowning roots. This unpredictability is a key component of their charm, making each show a unique experience. Fans eagerly anticipate signature moments like catching flying baloney and witnessing the whimsical antics of Jimbo’s characters. The playful yet profound messages embedded in their shows, such as the notion that “we are all enough” and the whimsical metaphor of “the baloney in you,” resonate deeply with audiences, adding layers of meaning to the outrageous humor.

Critics and fans alike have praised Jimbo for their authenticity and creativity. Fellow performers and industry insiders have noted Jimbo’s ability to remain true to themselves while continually pushing the boundaries of drag performance. Their work is often described as a blend of the grotesque and the glamorous, a dichotomy that Jimbo embraces fully.

Looking ahead, Jimbo shows no signs of slowing down. Future projects are shrouded in mystery but are sure to be as innovative and captivating as their past work. With their infectious energy and unrelenting drive, Jimbo is poised to continue surprising and delighting audiences around the world. Their journey from a “robbed” contestant to a celebrated performer and winner is a testament to their resilience and unyielding dedication to their craft.

Jimbo the Drag Queen stands as a beacon of creativity and perseverance in the drag community, reminding us all that true artistry comes from embracing our unique quirks and sharing them boldly with the world.

Behind the Beats: Jeremy Joseph’s Journey from DJ to G-A-Y Nightclub Icon

Jeremy Joseph, the dynamic owner of the G-A-Y nightclub chain, shares intimate details about the early days of the iconic club, his encounters with gangsters, and the pop star who delivered the most lackluster performance in the club’s history. This article explores Jeremy’s journey from an aspiring TV presenter to a nightclub mogul, shedding light on the trials, triumphs, and unforgettable moments that defined G-A-Y.

Early Life: From TV Dreams to DJ Booths

Jeremy Joseph’s roots are firmly planted in London soil. Growing up, he harbored dreams of becoming a TV presenter, a goal that led him into the world of DJ-ing as a means to hone his presenting skills.

“I was one of those annoying talking DJs,” Jeremy recalls, referring to his early days at The Royal Oak in Hammersmith. In those times, LGBT pubs featured DJs who not only spun records but also engaged the audience with lively banter and introduced cabaret acts between songs. It was in this vibrant, community-driven environment that Jeremy found his footing.

His foray into event promotion began somewhat serendipitously. Initially, he organized one-off events for the promoters of Bang!, a popular club night. His knack for promotion quickly became evident, and soon he was entrusted with running their Saturday night party at LA2, a club space beneath The Astoria.

Launching G-A-Y: The Birth of an Icon

A fallout with the Bang! promoters led to a pivotal moment in Jeremy’s career. The owners of The Astoria approached him with an offer to take over the running of their Saturday night event. Although initially conflicted, Jeremy decided to embrace the opportunity, a decision that would lead to the birth of G-A-Y.

Needing a new name for the night, Jeremy looked no further than his own radio show on Spectrum Radio, aptly titled “G-A-Y.” The name perfectly encapsulated the essence of what he aimed to achieve with the nightclub – a celebration of queer identity and culture.

Musical Acts: From Divas to Pop Icons

One of the defining features of G-A-Y was its ability to attract major pop stars. In its early days, Jeremy booked dance music divas like Kym Mazelle and Jocelyn Brown. The turning point came when he secured 80s Eurovision winners Bucks Fizz to perform.

“It was this huge pop party and I’d never felt anything like it before,” Jeremy reflects. “That was when I knew this was the beginning of something special.”

As word spread, the club began to draw bigger names. Icons like Dannii and Kylie Minogue, Steps, and the Spice Girls graced the G-A-Y stage, transforming it into a must-visit venue for pop music lovers.

Saying Goodbye to The Astoria: The End of an Era

The Astoria’s closure in 2009, due to the Crossrail project, marked a significant shift in London’s queer scene. The project, which aimed to improve transportation infrastructure, resulted in the demolition of several key venues, including The Astoria, Ghetto, and First Out Cafe.

“Well, the rumours of Crossrail had been going for years… And we kind of thought it was never going to happen,” Jeremy recalls. But when it did, the reality was a shock.

Jeremy adapted by purchasing Heaven nightclub in 2009, where G-A-Y found a new home. Despite the move, Jeremy still fondly remembers The Astoria. “I didn’t want to leave. It wasn’t a choice,” he says. “We had something really, really special.”

Community and Change: The 90s LGBT Scene

Reflecting on the 90s, Jeremy highlights the strong sense of community within LGBT venues. “We didn’t have equality. LGBT venues were much more community-oriented. They were even safer spaces because people were not as out as they are now. Sometimes, going out was the only time people could be themselves.”

During this time, the LGBT community faced significant challenges, including the AIDS crisis and widespread discrimination. “We were fighting for so many different things: to serve in the armed forces, for an equal age of consent,” Jeremy explains. “Venues were much more community-oriented because there was a fight on our hands. We were fighting the government, public opinion, and for our lives.”

The Promoter’s Journey: Navigating Tough Terrain

Jeremy’s journey wasn’t without its hurdles. The nightclub scene in the 90s was often dominated by unsavory characters. “Venues were run by gangsters. They were not easy people to work for,” Jeremy reveals. He recounts the difficult decision he faced when tensions between Bang! and The Astoria owners came to a head.

“I was given the ultimatum: go with Bang! or stay and keep this going. That was my livelihood. It wasn’t just about me; DJs and staff’s jobs were on the line. I took the risk and decided to take it on,” Jeremy says. With the Bang! name no longer an option, he rebranded the night using the now-familiar G-A-Y title from his radio show.

The Evolution of G-A-Y

From its humble beginnings in the basement of The Astoria, G-A-Y grew into an institution. Jeremy’s ability to navigate the complex and often perilous nightclub industry, combined with his passion for creating a safe and inclusive space, ensured the club’s success.

The Pressure to Succeed

Jeremy reflects on the pressure to succeed, especially after giving up his secure job at The Royal Oak. “I had given up everything to do this,” he says. “I had to make it work because otherwise I’d be out of work.”

Despite the challenges, including financial exploitation by those in control, Jeremy persevered. “When you work for gangsters, you get ripped off all the time. People see a packed night and think you’re earning millions, but you’re not because these people are ripping you off,” he explains.

Changing Times: A Safer, More Inclusive Scene

Jeremy acknowledges that the nightclub industry has changed significantly since the 90s. “It’s a very different time now,” he says. “What went on in the 90s and early 2000s and what goes on now are two different times. Security controls a lot of things now.”

Despite the negative aspects of working under gangster influence, Jeremy notes a surprising upside: safety. “In a way, it kept LGBT people safe. These were people you didn’t argue with. It was like when people talk about the Kray twins and how the East End was safer because of their control. It was the same in clubbing; you were kind of protected.”

The Legacy Continues

Today, G-A-Y continues to thrive, hosting performances by contemporary pop stars and maintaining its status as a cornerstone of London’s LGBT nightlife. Jeremy Joseph’s journey from aspiring TV presenter to iconic club promoter is a testament to his resilience, creativity, and unwavering commitment to the community he loves.

Through the highs and lows, Jeremy’s passion for creating a vibrant, safe, and inclusive space for the LGBT community has never wavered. His story is a powerful reminder of the impact one person can have on an entire community, transforming dreams into reality against all odds.pen question. Nicolas Bay and Gilbert Collard — two MEPs who left Le Pen’s party to join Zemmour — didn’t endorse a possible alliance with Le Pen, in case she wins the second round.

Lily Savage in 80s London Drag Scene

Paul O’Grady, a beloved entertainer, passed away on March 28, 2023. His death marked a profound moment of sadness for many.The memory of Lily Savage’s sharp wit and vibrant performances continues to be cherished, and Paul O’Grady’s legacy lives on, remembered fondly by those who adored him.

From Birkenhead to the Big City

Paul O’Grady’s journey to becoming Lily Savage began in Birkenhead, a working-class town near Liverpool. O’Grady describes how the strong, resilient women in his family, especially his mother and aunts, significantly influenced Lily’s character. These women, with their sharp wit and no-nonsense attitudes, became the blueprint for Lily Savage’s persona.

In “The Devil Rides Out,” O’Grady writes, “I grew up surrounded by formidable women. My mother, my aunts, they were all very strong characters, and they had this incredible ability to take life’s hardships on the chin. Their resilience, humor, and way of dealing with the world around them were a huge influence on me and Lily.”

The London Drag Scene

O’Grady moved to London in the early 1980s, where he began to perform in drag. It was in the capital’s vibrant gay scene that Lily Savage truly came to life. O’Grady recalls his early performances at small venues and pubs, including the legendary Royal Vauxhall Tavern. It was here that Lily’s sharp tongue and outrageous style quickly caught on with audiences.

In his autobiography, O’Grady reflects on the scene: “The drag scene in London was tough but exhilarating. You had to have a thick skin and a quick wit to survive. Lily Savage was my way of coping and fighting back, using humor to tackle everything from politics to the harsh realities of the gay community in the 1980s.”

During this period, O’Grady rubbed shoulders with other emerging talents in the drag and entertainment scenes. These included stars who would later achieve widespread fame, such as Julian Clary and Dame Edna Everage (Barry Humphries).

Memorable Performances and Incidents

O’Grady shares a memorable story about his debut performance at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern, a famous gay bar known for its lively atmosphere and no-holds-barred performances. Lily Savage’s audacious humor and striking appearance made an immediate impact. O’Grady recalls, “I walked in there with my beehive hairdo and garish makeup, not knowing what to expect. The crowd was tough, but they loved Lily’s sharp tongue. It was a make-or-break moment, and thankfully, it made her.”

Another vivid memory from O’Grady’s early days in the London drag scene involves a performance at a rough pub in East London. “The place was filled with blokes who looked like they were ready for a fight. I was terrified, but Lily wasn’t. She strutted in, gave as good as she got, and by the end of the night, even the toughest guys were laughing and clapping. That’s when I knew Lily had something special.”

O’Grady also recounts a particularly challenging night when a power cut plunged the venue into darkness just as Lily was about to take the stage. “There we were, in pitch black, and I thought, ‘This is it, show’s over.’ But Lily wasn’t having any of it. She grabbed a candle from the bar, stood on a table, and started her routine. The audience loved it—they were laughing so hard, they forgot about the power cut. That night, Lily proved she could perform under any circumstances.”

Another tale from Bow Bells Tavern showcases Lily’s sharp wit diffusing a potentially dangerous situation. “A group of rowdy, inebriated patrons started heckling Lily. She quickly fired back with her trademark humour, turning their insults into punchlines. By the end of the night, she had the whole pub eating out of her hand. It was a testament to Lily’s ability to win over any crowd, no matter how hostile.”

O’Grady recalls a poignant performance during the AIDS crisis. “Lily addressed the fear and stigma surrounding AIDS head-on. In one routine, she humorously dispelled myths and brought the audience to tears with her heartfelt plea for compassion. It was a defining moment where Lily used her platform to educate and unite people during a time of widespread panic.”

Lily Savage with Boy George and Robbie Williams, undated. Courtesy: @paulogrady; photograph: Nicky Johnston

Signature Style and Persona

Lily Savage’s look was a distinctive blend of glamour and grit, heavily inspired by the women O’Grady knew growing up. She sported an outrageous beehive hairdo, garish makeup, and a wardrobe as loud as her mouth. However, it was her wit and sharp commentary that truly set her apart.

O’Grady writes, “Lily’s look was inspired by the women I knew growing up, mixed with a bit of glamour and a lot of attitude. She had this outrageous beehive hairdo, garish makeup, and a wardrobe that was as loud as her mouth. But it was her wit that made her stand out. She’d say the things everyone was thinking but didn’t dare to say.”

Paul O’Grady as Lily Savage at the Royal Vauxhall Tavern, shared kindly by the RVT

Social Commentary Through Humor

Lily Savage quickly became more than just a drag act; she was a mouthpiece for O’Grady’s social commentary. During the AIDS crisis and under the Conservative government of the time, Lily’s performances often addressed serious issues through humor, making her a beloved figure in the gay community and beyond.

O’Grady explains, “Lily Savage was my way of coping and fighting back, using humor to tackle everything from politics to the harsh realities of the gay community in the 1980s. Her sharp tongue and no-nonsense attitude allowed me to address issues that were often ignored or misunderstood.”

One notable incident that highlighted Lily’s role as a social commentator was a performance during the height of the AIDS crisis. O’Grady recalls, “I did a routine where Lily talked about the fear and misinformation surrounding AIDS. It was a risky move, but it resonated with the audience. People were laughing and crying at the same time. It was then I realized the power of using humor to address serious issues.”

Rise to Fame

As Lily Savage gained popularity in London’s drag scene, she began to break into mainstream entertainment. O’Grady’s character became a regular on television, bringing drag culture into the homes of millions. This rise to fame marked a significant shift in how drag was perceived in the UK, with Lily Savage leading the charge.

In “The Devil Rides Out,” O’Grady fondly recalls this transition: “From performing in clubs and pubs to appearing on national television, Lily Savage’s journey was incredible. She became a household name, and in doing so, helped bring drag culture into the mainstream.”

Among her contemporaries were Julian Clary, who brought a different style of flamboyant comedy to television, and Dame Edna Everage, the creation of Australian comedian Barry Humphries, who also played a significant role in bringing drag to mainstream audiences. These performers, along with Lily Savage, helped to elevate and normalise drag in the public eye

Lily Savage’s early years, as chronicled in “The Devil Rides Out,” showcase the evolution of a character born out of personal experience and societal challenges. Paul O’Grady’s creation not only entertained but also provided a sharp, humorous lens through which to view and critique the world. Through Lily Savage, O’Grady left an indelible mark on both the drag scene and mainstream entertainment, paving the way for future generations of performers.

Friendship and Legacy: The Bond Between Russell T Davies and Jill Nalder

Russell T Davies and Jill Nalder have known each other since their teenage years, having met through the youth theatre scene in their hometown of Swansea. Their enduring friendship and shared experiences during the 1980s, particularly within the LGBTQ+ community, deeply influenced their later collaborations, with Nalder’s real-life stories inspiring key elements of Davies’ acclaimed TV series “It’s a Sin.”

“It’s a Sin” and “Love from the Pink Palace” have had a significant impact, bringing renewed attention to the AIDS crisis and educating new generations about its history and ongoing challenges. They have sparked important conversations about stigma, discrimination, and the importance of empathy and support for marginalized communities. “It’s a Sin” has been praised for its authentic representation of LGBTQ+ characters, contributing to greater visibility and understanding in mainstream media. Nalder’s memoir serves as an inspiration for activism, demonstrating the power of individual and collective action in the face of adversity. Both works celebrate the enduring spirit of love, friendship, and resilience within the LGBTQ+ community, ensuring that the memories of those lost to the epidemic are not forgotten.

Russell T Davies’ “It’s a Sin,” premiered in early 2021, quickly garnering acclaim for its raw portrayal of a group of friends living through the AIDS crisis in London during the 1980s and early 1990s. The series dives deep into the lives of Ritchie Tozer, Roscoe Babatunde, Colin Morris-Jones, Jill Baxter, and Ash Mukherjee, each character reflecting the diverse experiences within the LGBTQ+ community during this tumultuous period.

Ritchie, played by Olly Alexander, arrives in London with dreams of becoming an actor but soon faces the harsh realities of the AIDS epidemic. Omari Douglas’ Roscoe flees a conservative family to find acceptance and freedom in the city’s nightlife. Callum Scott Howells’ Colin, a shy Welshman, undergoes a heartbreaking transformation as the disease claims him. Lydia West’s Jill emerges as a beacon of compassion and activism, tirelessly supporting her friends. Nathaniel Curtis’ Ash remains a steadfast presence, embodying the enduring spirit of solidarity. The series’ emotional depth and unflinching portrayal of the AIDS crisis earned it praise for shedding light on the fear, stigma, and ignorance of the time while celebrating the love and camaraderie that sustained the community through its darkest days.

Jill Nalder’s memoir, “Love from the Pink Palace,” offers a deeply personal lens into this era. Nalder, whose experiences inspired the character of Jill Baxter in “It’s a Sin,” shares intimate memories of love, loss, and activism. Her London flat, affectionately dubbed the Pink Palace, became a sanctuary for friends and loved ones, a place of laughter and support amid the growing crisis. Nalder’s close friend Paul, one of the first to be diagnosed with AIDS, epitomizes the struggle and stigma faced by many, with Nalder’s unwavering support standing out as a testament to the power of friendship.

Nalder’s involvement in the cabaret scene provided a platform for advocacy, using performance art to educate and raise awareness about AIDS. Her visits to friends in hospitals revealed the neglect and discrimination patients faced, highlighting the urgent need for compassion and systemic change. Participating in the creation of the AIDS Memorial Quilt, Nalder contributed to a powerful symbol of collective grief and remembrance, ensuring that the memories of those lost were honored.

The impact of “It’s a Sin” and “Love from the Pink Palace” extends far beyond their narratives. Both works have reignited awareness of the AIDS crisis, educating new generations about this crucial chapter in LGBTQ+ history. They have spurred cultural dialogue about stigma, discrimination, and the necessity of empathy and support for marginalized communities. By presenting authentic LGBTQ+ stories, “It’s a Sin” has enhanced representation in mainstream media, while Nalder’s memoir inspires continued activism, demonstrating the profound impact of individual and collective action.

Ultimately, these works celebrate the enduring spirit of love, friendship, and resilience within the LGBTQ+ community. They serve as poignant reminders of the importance of empathy, awareness, and action, ensuring that the memories of those affected by the epidemic are not forgotten and that the fight against stigma and discrimination continues.

Glittering Legacy of Maisie Trollette

David Raven: The Glittering Legacy of Maisie Trollette

Oh, darlings, gather close and let me spin you a tale of David Raven, known to the world in all her shimmering splendor as Maisie Trollette. Born on August 15, 1933, in the charming seaside town of St Ives, Cornwall, Maisie has been gracing stages and captivating hearts for more than half a century. That’s right, she’s been dazzling audiences longer than most of us have been perfecting our contouring!

From Humble Beginnings to Fabulous Fame

Picture it: 1930s Cornwall, where young David Raven was raised before his family moved to Suffolk. Imagine this future drag sensation training as a grocer, then a publican and waiter, rubbing elbows with the likes of Lonnie Donegan and Matt Monro at Gorleston Super Holiday Camp in Great Yarmouth. By 1960, David packed up and moved to London, ready to conquer the world with nothing but a sparkle in his eye and a song in his heart.

It was in London that David met the charming James Court, and together they created magic as the Trollettes. Their unique blend of live performance and charisma won them a talent competition at The Black Cap in Camden Town. But the real fairy tale began when David met his life partner, banker Don Coull. Don’s cheeky suggestion to add a bit more sparkle led to the birth of Maisie Trollette—thanks to Don’s playful jab about looking like a pair of trolls, David combined “troll” with the -ette suffix, and voilà, Maisie Trollette was born!

Maisie Trollette: A Drag Diva is Born

The 1960s were a golden era for drag, and Maisie Trollette was right at the heart of it, serving up live performances that shone brighter than the rest. The Trollettes quickly became a beloved fixture at The Vauxhall Tavern, and Maisie’s theatrical flair saw her gracing stages in productions like The Boys in the Band and One Flew Over the Cuckoo’s Nest.

In the late 1970s, fate and fortune smiled upon Maisie and Don. With a hefty win from the football pools, they bought a guesthouse on St George’s Terrace in Brighton, a city that stole their hearts with its liberal, gay-friendly vibe. Since then, Brighton has been Maisie’s stage, and she’s been a fabulous fixture at Brighton Pride since its inception in 1973.ible alliance with Le Pen, in case she wins the second round.

The Timeless Sparkle of Brighton

Even now, perched on a stool and belting out classics like “There’s No Business Like Show Business” and “Anything Goes,” Maisie’s act remains as enchanting as ever. In 2018, for her 85th birthday, the drag world witnessed a true moment of magic—Darcelle XV, the world’s oldest working drag queen, flew in from the US to perform with Maisie at Legend’s Bar in Brighton. Their meeting was captured in the documentary Maisie, celebrating a legacy of enduring glamour and grace.

A Legend’s Life and Legacy

So here’s the scoop, darling. David Raven, the brilliant Maisie Trollette, has danced through the decades with a sparkle that refuses to fade. At 85, she’s still performing, still fabulous, and still as fierce as ever. Despite the challenges—like arthritis and the loss of dear friends—Maisie remains a beacon of resilience and joy.

Why does she keep performing? “I’m working because I love what I do,” she says with a wink. “Besides, have you seen the prices of bread and coffee?” With a legacy as rich as her makeup is glittery, Maisie Trollette is a true icon whose story continues to inspire and dazzle. Here’s to Maisie, a living legend whose sparkle will shine on for generations to come. Cheers, darling—keep on dazzling! 💋✨

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Polari: The Code of Gay Resilience and Identity.

In the grand theatre of linguistic evolution, Polari emerges not as a mere historical artifact but as a vivid emblem of the LGBTQ+ community’s enduring spirit. From its murky inception in the shadowed alleys of early 20th-century Britain, Polari became a beacon of defiance and solidarity, a coded lexicon crafted under the harsh glare of societal repression. This was no mere assortment of slang; it was a lifeline, a covert means of communication for a world where the mere hint of one’s true self could lead to dire consequences. With its eclectic blend of Italian, Romani, Cockney rhyming slang, and British English, Polari served as both shield and sanctuary, allowing its users to navigate a hostile landscape with remarkable panache.

Polari’s origins are steeped in a unique linguistic alchemy. It emerged out of necessity, a quilt of words enabling LGBTQ+ individuals to converse about their identities and desires without courting unwanted scrutiny. More than a survival tool, Polari was a sophisticated form of discourse, a way to speak openly about one’s private life in a public sphere that was often unforgiving. The charm of Polari lies in its playful vocabulary—terms like “bona,” signifying something or someone attractive, “varda,” meaning to look, and “lallies,” a cheeky term for legs. These words were not mere euphemisms but reflections of a community that, despite adversity, embraced life with a flourish of style and humor. The term “camp,” for example, transcends mere theatricality to embody a flamboyant, almost defiant embrace of personal expression.

Yet, Polari’s legacy extends far beyond its own lexicon. It represents a broader tradition of LGBTQ+ slang, each term encapsulating various facets of the community’s experiences and struggles. From the once-derogatory “fruit” to the reclaimed “pansy,” these words are emblematic of the ever-evolving nature of LGBTQ+ identity and resilience. They mirror a dynamic interplay between societal rejection and internal solidarity, showcasing how language can serve as both weapon and refuge.

Though Polari may no longer grace everyday conversation with the frequency it once did, it remains a poignant artifact of cultural history. It stands as a testament to the ingenuity and defiance of a community that refused to be silenced. In modern media and academic circles, Polari is not merely a historical curiosity but a vibrant symbol of LGBTQ+ heritage. It graces exhibitions and scholarly discussions, a living reminder of how marginalized voices carved out a space for themselves against overwhelming odds.

In today’s world, as LGBTQ+ slang increasingly permeates mainstream culture, there exists a delicate tension between retaining the original, nuanced meanings of these terms and their broader, more generic applications. Words like “fabulous” and “shade,” once deeply embedded in LGBTQ+ vernacular, risk losing their distinctiveness as they become part of everyday language. This transition underscores the challenge of balancing community pride with the inevitable broadening of cultural influence, preserving the richness of LGBTQ+ expressions even as they gain widespread popularity.

Polari’s origins, with their rich blend of Romani, Italian, and Cockney influences, highlight a broader trend of linguistic creativity within marginalized communities. It was not just a means of survival but a subtle form of subversion against societal norms. Its popularity, buoyed by British entertainment like Round the Horne and its memorable characters, Julian and Sandy, introduced Polari to a wider audience. This comedic yet respectful portrayal preserved the essence of Polari while illuminating its historical significance.

Polari was more than a language; it was a foundation for community and solidarity. It allowed LGBTQ+ individuals to create a shared identity and communicate in ways that were both private and affirming. It was a testament to their ability to reclaim power and assert their identity in a society that often sought to marginalize or erase them. Recent revivals of Polari underscore its ongoing relevance, highlighting its contribution to LGBTQ+ cultural heritage.

As social media continues to shape the evolution of LGBTQ+ slang, new terms emerge, perpetuating the tradition of linguistic innovation and community-building. While these contemporary terms may lack Polari’s historical weight, they continue the legacy of creativity and self-expression that Polari exemplified. In a world where LGBTQ+ language is increasingly mainstream, the challenge remains to preserve the depth and context of these expressions while celebrating their expanded reach.

In sum, Polari’s influence on LGBTQ+ culture and media extends far beyond its historical roots, permeating drag performance, literature, and global queer vernacular. Its revival and continued study underscore its enduring significance, while personal anecdotes and historical contexts enrich our understanding of its role in shaping queer identity and expression. Polari remains a vibrant testament to the resilience and creativity of the LGBTQ+ community, a language that continues to inspire and inform even as it evolves and adapts.